Sunday, June 4, 2017

MAY is the month to celebrate MOTHERS


DIANE:  Family Secrets by Liz Bryski

Set in Tasmania, the book begins with the death of Gerald, a dominating husband and father. His wife who has been his long time carer now has the chance to travel to France to visit his estranged sister. The family becomes more splintered as they struggle to come to terms with the death of their father/husband.
Diane thought it was well written, but a bit of a ‘kitchen sink drama’. She would have liked a bit more story!

JO:   Terms of Endearment by Larry McMurtry

The main character Aurora, was a horrible woman, an awful mother who dominated everybody’s life including that of her beautiful daughter, Emma.
There were many funny moments, Jo liked the book but not some of the characters.
The male author seemed to have a good perspective on how women act and carry on.

PAULINE:  One Life: My Mother’s Story by Kate Grenville

This is the story of the author’s mother’s life. She was not famous and came from a poor country background. Her parents were quite indifferent to her, but her mother showed great determination to stay at school and eventually going to University. The book tells the story of her life until just after Kate is born.
Pauline thought it quite interesting, an easy read but would have liked to learn more about her life after Kate was born.

JUDY #1 also read this book. She read from the Prologue that highlighted how different the lives of women are now. She could imagine that the era Kate’s  mother had lived in was similar to her own mother’s life. This made the book more enjoyable.

BEV:  When it Rains; a Memoir by Maggie McKellar

When Maggie’s husband suicides, leaving her with a young daughter and an unborn son, she doesn’t cope and so her mother comes to help her.
Unfortunately her mother dies within a few months from an aggressive form of cancer. After struggling along for another year, Maggie takes the children on a holiday break to an aunt’s farm. The children love it there and she makes the decision that this is where they will move on and try to put their lives back together again.
Quite a good read, said Bev.

JUDY#2:  Love Your Sister by Connie & Samuel Johnson

This is the story of a brother and sister as they cope with Connie’s several cancer diagnoses and their determined efforts to fundraise to help find a cure.
An incredible story, very uplifting and inspirational.
Judy commented that it was amazing that a girl who grew up without a mother could go on to become such an amazing mother herself.


TAM: House on the Hill by Susan Duncan

The author had previously lived in Pittwater but at 65 she and her husband had a huge lifestyle change, building a self-sustainable house near Taree.
At the same time she is also trying to deal with her difficult 95-year-old mother who has recently had to move into a Nursing Home. She also needed to talk with her about family issues that have never been raised.
She struggles to love her mother while also needing to look after her.

DENISE:  Dracula in Love by Karen Essex

Dracula has been in love with Mina through the centuries. But when she dies and comes back, Dracula must wait for her to choose him.
Mina’s mother had totally abandoned her because she didn’t understand her. She was sent to boarding school, where others were a ‘better mother’ to her.
Denise commented that mothers, through good intentions, sometimes do the wrong thing.
She enjoyed this interesting book, lots of fun and raunchy sex and sin!


CONNIE: The Three Marys

One of the subjects in this book was Mary, the mother of Jesus.
The author described her life and the times she lived in from an historical point of view.
His evidence is taken from the texts in the Bible.
Connie found the book fascinating and enjoyed learning more about Mary’s life.

WENDY L: Mrs Kelly; The Astonishing Life of Ned Kelly’s Mother by Grantlee Kieza

Wendy was disappointed that in this lengthy book (over 600pages) only about 50 pages were specifically about Ned Kelly’s mother.
She found the author’s writing style very annoying as he speculated and made assumptions. The book was well referenced but many were almost fictionalized to make it a workable narrative.
It was a disappointing read as it was mainly from Ned’s perspective.

PAT: Marie Curie and Her Daughters: The Private Lives of Science's First Family by Shelley Emling

Marie Curie’s love of science and her discoveries are retold in this book but much more of the focus is on her two daughters. She was close to her daughters despite being away from the family home for long periods due to work.
Irene followed her mother’s footsteps into science and was instrumental in the discovery of nuclear fission. Eve traveled the world as a foreign correspondent and then moved on to humanitarian missions.
Much of the information for the book comes from letters written by Madame Curie showing her tender side.
An interesting read.

VAL: Marrying Off Mother and Other Stories by Gerald Durall

An amusing collection of short stories set in 1935 when the family moves to Corfu after the death of their father. The 4 children decide that mother needs to be married off and unsuccessfully look for suitors among the local Greeks.
When a friend of her son comes to visit, she “falls in love” with him, decides to move to Athens meaning that the children will all have to find jobs or return to school.
The children are horrified because of their assumed superiority and privileged background.
An amusing story with humorous banter between the children and their mother but Val found the book very naïve now.


CLARIS: All For My Children by Sally Faulkner

When her husband refused to return their children, and the Australian government and Lebanese justice system couldn't help, Sally Faulkner flew across the world with a television news crew to try to bring them home herself. There are very emotive arguments all through the book.
 Claris described it as an “I “ book, showing her drive, her motherly feelings and her naivety from her perspective. She probably also needed the money. It was not a literary work.

In contrast Claris also read Geraldine Brook’s People of the Book.
Here the mother didn’t want her daughter to know her grandfather. This was a literary work and meticulously researched for the storyline. 

KRIS:  My Life in a Pea Soup by Lisa Nops

The book was written as a way of documenting the parents ‘s struggle to cope with their profoundly autistic daughter. There are moments of humour as they travel in different cultures, frustration as they battle with the medical world, loneliness as she manages much of this alone while her husband is at work. She also feels a loss of identity because of the situation and the stress on her marriage. An important and moving book, said Kris.

SHEILA: Till Death Us Do Part by Jayne Ann Krentz /Amanda Quick

Set in Victorian London, this light read, well written and with a little bit of light sex thrown in was enjoyed by Sheila. A number of strong-minded single women who find themselves alone in the world join an exclusive ‘introduction agency’. When gifts that are only suitable for someone in mourning begin to arrive, they must seek help elsewhere.

JOAN:  The Memory Stones by Caroline Brothers

The book is set in 1976 in Buenos Aires and begins when a doctor takes his wife and daughters away for a break. On their return they find that the military coup is underway. Many people begin to leave while just as many go missing.  It is a haunting, compelling, heartbreaking novel recalling the search for missing loved ones, particularly babies.
This is very much the story of the grandmothers who continued searching and still today march every Thursday.

JUDY #3 The Mothers by Brit Bennett

This is a well-written debut novel set in a contemporary black community in Southern California. It follows the relationship between 3 teenagers as they search for emotional meaning, love and dealing with pain.
‘The Mothers’ are elderly black ladies who pray for others and narrate what is happening with the 3 young people.

ANNE: My Name is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout

When Lucy is recovering from what should have been a simple operation, her mother comes to see her. Their relationship has been very strained for many years but they do spend this time talking. But just as quickly her mother leaves again and the connection is lost.
When her mother is dying, Lucy who is now a successful author goes to see her.
Anne thought the book was beautifully written but it was hard to pick out a storyline.

DIANN: Mothers and Daughters by Minna Howard

Diann described the book as a good family story and their own hidden secrets.
When a mother is widowed her 2 daughters come to see her separately. There are twists and turns and some unexpected surprises.


CLAURENE: Philomena by Martin Sixsmith

She had only read about 170 pages of the book. It started well telling the story of a young Irish girl who becomes pregnant. Her parents send her to a convent to give birth and here she stays with her baby for 2 years. The treatment of the girls in the convent is dreadful.
An American couple eventually adopts her baby taking it back to the USA despite the protests of the Irish Government.

JULIA: Sins of the Mother by Danielle Steele

While building up a large and successful business, the mother has spent little time with her children.
Later when she tries to make it up to them by suggesting an expensive holiday together, the children don’t want to go.
She must confront the past and face what the future may mean.
Julia enjoyed it, an easy read and not as predictable and trashy as other books by the author.


 

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